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From panic attacks to hitting the gym twice a week<\/h2>\n\t\t
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When I began working with Sam over 2 years ago, I could never have imagined the remarkable journey we would share. At 26, Sam is an autistic individual who has faced numerous challenges throughout his life\u2014mental health struggles, executive function difficulties, and sensory processing differences that made everyday experiences overwhelming. As his support person, I’ve had a front-row seat to both his struggles and his incredible growth, especially over the past 18 months as we’ve worked intensively through the Davis Autism Approach Program, with Davis Facilitator, Melanie Curry.
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The beginning: uncertainty<\/h2>\n

Before we started the Davis program in early 2024, I worried we wouldn’t make progress. Sam’s world was overwhelming for him. He experienced unpleasant meltdowns, panic attacks, and showed symptoms of PTSD. His executive skills were very poor, making navigation through daily life extremely difficult.
\nSam experiences what doctors call Alice in Wonderland syndrome, where his visual perception suddenly zooms images down to tiny sizes. He wears special glasses for light sensitivity and has other functional challenges that made traditional learning approaches ineffective.
\nIt was like watching someone being handed a bicycle and asked to ride without any instructions\u2014he would wobble and fall off, with no idea how to proceed. I felt helpless at times, wanting to support him but not knowing how to break through.<\/p>\n

Our Davis journey begins<\/h3>\n

When we began the Davis Autism Approach program, I committed to working with Sam every other day, complementing his weekly sessions with Melanie, our Davis Facilitator. We focused on reading, writing, and the Davis Concepts.
\nThe transformation was nothing short of incredible. Slowly, the “pennies started dropping” as Sam began to grasp fundamental life concepts. The first major breakthrough came when he understood the concepts of Cause, Effect<\/em> and Consequence<\/em>. For perhaps the first time, Sam began to truly understand what he had control over in his life and started clarifying long-held confusions.
\nWorking through the Davis Autsim Approach Program with Sam changed my perspective too. As his support person, I found myself empowered by understanding these different ways of processing life, tasks, and outcomes. Concepts that would otherwise be confusing became clear, which has made my supporting abilities so much more effective.<\/p>\n\t<\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n\n

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Real-life applications: Where the magic happens<\/h3>\n

One unique aspect of my role has been helping Sam apply these concepts in real-life situations. Between his sessions with Melanie, we would practice using his new understanding in everyday scenarios.<\/p>\n

I remember one breakthrough moment when Sam was becoming overwhelmed with a change in his routine. Previously, this would have triggered a meltdown. Instead, I watched him pause, use his Davis tools to reorient himself, and then work through the situation step by step, applying his understanding of the “change<\/em>” concept we had been modelling in clay.<\/p>\n

Another time, Sam was struggling with a social interaction at the gym\u2014a place he now visits twice weekly. Using the concepts he learned through the Davis program, he was able to recognize the dynamics at play and navigate the situation successfully. His pride in that moment was palpable.<\/p>\n

The beauty of the Davis Autism Approach \u00a0is that it’s experiential\u2014it’s not about memorizing social scripts or being told how to behave. Instead, Sam gained an intuitive understanding of concepts that allowed him to think through each unique situation he encounters.<\/p>\n

“Like a dam bursting”<\/h3>\n

The most amazing part of this journey has been watching Sam’s transformation. It was like a dam bursting \u2014 all of this experiential information had been locked up behind his struggles, and finally, the water could flow.<\/p>\n

Since beginning the Davis Autism Approach program:<\/p>\n